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Group Division, Group Building Activity
A workshop on authentic human connection through creative questioning, group dialogue, and deep sharing in four interactive phases.
To foster authentic human connection through curiosity and questioning. To create a safe space where people can explore meaningful topics without judgment. To help participants discover shared interests and perspectives through interactive dialogue. To encourage deep self-reflection and emotional honesty. To build community through vulnerability and active listening.
This workshop structure consists of four interconnected phases designed to build progressively deeper connections:
PART 1: Brew Your Questions (15-20 mins) - Participants create 10 questions: 3 "Pick One" questions (yes/no or multiple choice), 3 "Spill the Tea" open-ended questions, 3 "But... WHY Though?" questions ending with "why" or "explain", and 1 "Brain Itch" question that is personally haunting or profound.
PART 2: Question Speed-Dating (20-30 mins) - Participants rotate in pairs or small groups, reading questions aloud. If a question resonates, they steal it and write it down. Rotations occur 2-3 times with 5-7 minutes per pairing.
PART 3: Circle Share (15-20 mins, Voluntary) - The group gathers to share questions that "blew their mind" with rules: listen like a friend (no advice), validate feelings over debate, and pass anytime. No judgment allowed.
PART 4: Deep Dive (20-30 mins, For the Brave!) - Pick 1-2 questions from circle share. Go around with responses. Golden rule: NO "I DON'T KNOW" answers - dig deeper and share authentic responses. Facilitators close with gratitude.
Learning outcomes: Participants develop deeper self-awareness, experience authentic connection through vulnerability, learn active listening skills, discover shared human interests and concerns, and practice honest self-expression in a safe community space.
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This tool is for
Young people (14+) interested in personal development and meaningful human connection. Adults seeking authentic conversation and community. Groups working on team building and interpersonal connection. Any setting that values vulnerability, curiosity, and emotional intelligence.
and addresses
Group Dynamics, Intercultural Learning, Personal Development, Evaluation, Youth Participation
It is recommended for use in:
Youth Exchanges
Training and Networking
Materials needed:
Phone notes app or pen and paper (participant choice). Optional: Snacks, cozy lighting, chill background music. Safe, comfortable space that encourages vulnerability. Facilitator with strong listening and group management skills. Timer or alarm for pacing.
Duration:
Total time: 70-110 minutes. Part 1 (Brew Your Questions): 15-20 minutes. Part 2 (Speed-Dating): 20-30 minutes. Part 3 (Circle Share): 15-20 minutes (voluntary). Part 4 (Deep Dive): 20-30 minutes. Can be adapted for different group sizes and time constraints. Recommended minimum: 60 minutes for basic workshop flow.
The tool was created by
Aleksandras Davydovas
in the context of
Community workshops, youth retreats, training programs, team building sessions, and any group settings focused on personal development and interpersonal connection. Particularly effective in multicultural contexts and for diverse groups seeking authentic
The tool has been experimented in
In youth exchanges and training courses
The tool was published to the Toolbox by
Aleksandras Davydovas (on 24 November 2025)
and last modified
13 November 2025
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